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Inside these pages, you’ll discover the four powerful dimensions of connection—physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual—and how to experience a deeper, more complete relationship than most people even know is possible.
This book reveals the four types of connection that most couples never fully explore—but deeply crave without realizing it.
You’ll learn how to awaken intimacy in ways that go far beyond the bedroom, using proven techniques anyone can master.
Whether you’re married, dating, or healing from a breakup/divorce, this book will help you build deeper, more meaningful relationships.
You don't have to pay for the book. Only $9 for shipping.
This roadmap to soul-deep connection. You’ll explore the four orgasmic dimensions of human intimacy—physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual—and learn practical tools to create a relationship that feels fully alive, wildly connected, and deeply fulfilling.
Secret #1: Learn techniques that go far beyond the basics—touch, rhythm, and responsiveness that deepen trust and ignite pleasure.
Secret #2: Discover how to give your partner better orgasms, even if you’ve struggled before, using tools that work for every body.
Secret #3: Explore the hidden turn-ons you didn’t know were shaping your desire—and how to unlock your own physical presence as a gift.
Secret #4: Master the art of intellectual intimacy through curiosity, presence, and conversation that feels like foreplay—for the brain.
Secret #5: Learn the technique of passive listening—so your partner feels seen, safe, and understood, without judgment or interruption.
Secret #6: Create mental chemistry that builds connection, even in non-romantic relationships like friendships, business, and family.
Secret #7: Learn to build emotional safety that allows vulnerability, softens defenses, and fosters real connection.
Secret #8: Use reflective listening and emotional validation techniques that create trust and calm instead of conflict.
Secret #9: Discover how to love your partner in their emotional love language—even when you express yours differently.
Secret #7: Explore the sacred energy that awakens when two people connect beyond words, beliefs, or biology.
Secret #8: Practice breathwork, stillness, and shared spiritual presence to experience union on a soul level.
Secret #9: Learn how spiritual connection creates the deepest and most lasting bond—whether or not you share the same faith.
“We’d become roommates. Good parents. Good partners. But something was missing.”
After 22 years of marriage, my wife and I realized we hadn’t really talked—like, heart-to-heart—in a long time. Life just got busy. This book changed that.
I didn’t expect to be so moved. It gave me the tools to show up—not just in bed, but in the way I listen, speak, and hold space for her.
For the first time in years, we’re laughing again. Holding hands again. And our physical intimacy? Let’s just say… it’s like discovering a secret passage in a house you thought you knew.
I’m not a book guy. But I’ll be rereading this one again and again.
Greg T. 52, Husband & Father of Three
“If I’d had this book five years ago… I might still be married.”
I’m not some relationship expert. I worked hard, paid the bills, tried to be a good man. But looking back… i didn’t get what my ex needed.
We had sex. We talked. But we didn’t connect—not really.
I read The Four Orgasms after my divorce, just trying to understand what went wrong. Man… it hit me hard. Not in a shame way, just like… this is the stuff no one teaches you.
Now that I’m dating again, I feel like I’ve got a whole new lens. I’m listening better. Asking better questions. Connecting in ways I never did before.
I can’t change the past, but this book is changing my future.
Derrick H., 43, Divorced Dad Starting Over
“I’ve been a couples therapist for 17 years… and I’ve never read anything like this.”
Most relationship books either focus on sex techniques or emotional healing—but The Four Orgasms bridges both, and then goes further.
It’s rare to find something that speaks to physical desire, mental engagement, emotional safety, and spiritual alignment—all in one framework.
I’ve started recommending this book to clients who feel disconnected but don’t know why. And I’m seeing breakthroughs.
The language is modern but respectful, the insights are psychologically sound, and the metaphors are unforgettable. It gives couples something to reach for—not just something to fix.
In a world that’s either over-sexualized or emotionally numb, this book is a breath of fresh air.
Dr. Rachel Min, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT)
“This book gave me a whole new way to prepare for love.”
I’m not in a relationship right now, but I bought The Four Orgasms on a friend’s recommendation. What I didn’t expect was how much it would help me heal, reflect, and grow before I even meet my person.
It made me realize connection isn’t something you find—it’s something you grow & give. I feel more prepared, more grounded, and more clear on what real intimacy means now.
If I had read this in my last relationship, I think the outcome would’ve been very different. But I’m grateful to be going into my next one with this level of awareness.
Jordan S., 33, Brooklyn
“I didn’t want to leave—but I didn’t want to stay stuck either."
Our first year of marriage felt magical. But by year three, it was like something shifted. My husband got serious—about work, responsibility, the future. And I love that about him… but I started feeling invisible. Like we stopped playing. Stopped seeing each other.
I blamed myself for wanting more, especially when my friends seemed so “in love.”
This book helped me understand that what I was craving wasn’t unrealistic—it was deeply human. I needed more than just sex or surface talk. I needed emotional safety. Mental connection. Spiritual alignment.
The Four Orgasms gave us a shared language for what we didn’t know how to say. It helped me invite my husband back into a deeper bond—and helped him feel like he wasn’t failing, just evolving.
I feel like I have my best friend back. And more than that… I feel seen.
Marissa L., 29, Newlywed Rediscovering the Spark
“We almost didn’t buy it… but we’re so glad we did.”
As a Christian couple, the title The Four Orgasms definitely gave us pause. We thought, “Is this just another sex book in disguise?”
But something about the subtitle—A Revolutionary Guide to Climatic Connection—made us curious. And from the first chapter, we realized: this book is NOT about cheap thrills. It’s about sacred connection.
It gave us language for what we’d been craving—not just in the bedroom, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
We’ve prayed together for years. But now… we really feel connected when we do. And physical intimacy? It’s no longer a separate thing—it flows from everything else.
This book honors God’s design for connection in a way we never expected.
Mark & Bethany C., Married 12 Years, Faith-Filled & Reignited
“This book should be required reading for every couple before they marry.”
As a rabbi, I’ve spent over two decades preparing couples for marriage—teaching them about covenant, communication, and sacred intimacy. But The Four Orgasms gave me language and insight I didn’t know I was missing.
It honors the physical without being crude, celebrates the emotional without sentimentality, and approaches the spiritual with a kind of reverence I rarely see in modern writing.
What touched me most was its reminder that true connection is a whole-person experience. It’s not just about passion—it’s about presence.
I now give this book as a gift to every couple I mentor. It speaks across faiths, without compromising depth. If you’re building a marriage that lasts, start here.
Rabbi Eliav Cohen, Marriage Educator & Pre-Marital Counselor
“Even from 1,200 miles away, we’ve never felt more connected.”
My partner and I are in a long-distance relationship. We thought we were doing well—until The Four Orgasms showed us what deeper connection really looks like.
Now we have weekly rituals for emotional closeness, spiritual connection, and even mental stimulation that feel more intimate than anything we did in person. It’s made the distance feel sacred, not sad.
Anya M., Atlanta to Denver
Because this book has the power to transform your relationship—and I don’t want price to be the reason someone misses out. Most people have never been taught how to connect beyond the physical. But when you learn how to create climactic connection in every area of your relationship, everything changes. That’s why I’m putting this in as many hands as possible.
I know what it’s like to feel unfulfilled even when everything looks fine on the surface. I also know how good it feels to experience real intimacy—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually—not just physically. My goal is to give you the roadmap I wish I had sooner. If you’re willing to cover shipping, I’ll cover the cost of the book. Sound fair?
When you claim your free copy of The Four Orgasms, you’ll also unlock Day One of the online course—no waiting required. In this exclusive video lesson, you’ll discover why physical pleasure is a teachable skill, not just a lucky accident… and how mastering it can create safety, trust, and pleasure that transforms your relationship.
It’s the perfect way to dive deeper—right after you finish page one of the book.
Prefer to listen instead of read? You’ll get immediate access to the first 20% of the audiobook version as soon as you order your copy. Whether you’re in the car, at the gym, or unwinding at home, you can begin soaking in the first few chapters of this transformative guide—before the book even arrives.
It’s your invitation to reconnect, one word at a time.
The moment you order your free book, you’ll also receive instant access to Week One of The Four Orgasms Guided Journal. These daily prompts are designed to help you reconnect with your own body, awaken your senses, and prepare you to give (and receive) more fulfilling connection in every area of your life.
It’s your first step toward physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual intimacy—on paper, and in practice.
That’s over $60 in transformational resources—yours FREE when you claim your book today.
This exclusive bonus bundle is only available here, and only for a limited time.
Just cover shipping, and you’ll get immediate access to tools that will awaken your relationship from the inside out.
🎥 Day One of the Online Video Course – “Pleasure Is a Skill”
🎧 Chapter One of the Audiobook Audio Sample – Listen on the go
📓 Week One of the Guided Journal Downloadable PDF – Begin your practice today
My book retails for $23.69, but I bought it for you. So you don't pay anything for the actual book or these bonuses. I just ask that you cover the S&H to get it to you, so that I can give out as many copies around the world as possible (just $9.69 to ship yours anywhere in the United States!)
...in ways that make your partner feel heard—without pressure or performance.
...in ways that last far beyond the bedroom.
...that transforms not just your love life, but your entire way of relating.
This book was written for people who want more than just chemistry.
It’s for those who crave connection that feels real, whole, and truly satisfying.
Your journey starts with a single page.
Claim your free copy now—and start discovering what’s been missing.
© Jarem Frye 2025